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June Price Tangney and Ronda Dearing reveal why two sentences that sound alike produce opposite outcomes: "I did a bad thing" versus "I am a bad person." A longitudinal study of 476 U.S. jail inmates found guilt-proneness predicted fewer repeat offences, while shame-proneness predicted more through one specific pathway: externalising blame. Building on Helen Block Lewis's 1971 distinction and the TOSCA measurement tool, this book maps how judgment's address determines whether negative feeling drives repair or flight.
You'll learn:
- Why the urge to disappear, not self-criticism, drives harmful shame
- How generalised guilt without an event behaves statistically like shame
- What cross-cultural data from 15 communities reveals about shame as social signal
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