Wanting

We believe our desires are uniquely ours, but Luke Burgis reveals a startling truth: we want things because others want them. Drawing on René Girard's theory of mimetic desire, this book exposes the hidden social forces shaping our ambitions, anxieties, and rivalries. Burgis shows how we unconsciously imitate those around us, especially our peers, creating toxic competition and endless dissatisfaction. The key to freedom is distinguishing between "thin desires" we catch from others and "thick desires" rooted in our authentic values.

In this KitUP, you'll learn:

• Why you envy coworkers but not billionaires

• How to escape destructive rivalry cycles

• The path to reclaiming your true desires