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How to Not Die Alone

Logan Ury

The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love

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Behavioral scientist Logan Ury reveals why your dating instincts are sabotaging your love life. Using research-backed insights, she exposes three self-defeating patterns, the Romanticizer, Maximizer, and Hesitater, that keep you single. This isn't about finding your "soulmate"; it's about building lasting partnerships through intentional choices rather than fairy-tale fantasies.

Learn to distinguish between Prom Date excitement and Life Partner potential, overcome attachment anxieties, and architect your relationship milestones. Great relationships are built, not discovered, are you ready to stop waiting for sparks and start creating them?

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