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Red Flags, Green Flags

Dr. Ali Fenwick

Modern Psychology for Everyday Drama

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What's it about?

Modern relationships feel like minefields of red flags and instant judgments. Dr. Ali Fenwick challenges our reflex to swipe left at the first sign of trouble, revealing how our rush to label others "toxic" might be the real problem. Through the RED framework (Reflect, Engage, Decide), this guide teaches you to pause autopilot reactions and build genuine discernment, from workplace manipulation to dating app chaos to gaslighting dynamics.

In this kitUP, you'll learn:

• Master the reflective mindset to break painful relationship patterns

• Recognize dark psychology tactics like love bombing and psychological contracts

• Transform from flag-spotter to becoming your own green flag

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